Aggravations

2009 May 1

As a woman in the sex industry, I deal with all manner of people.  Most are very good, very sweet guys.  I appreciate those people more than I can say.  However, there are others that I deal with on a very regular basis, that cause me unending frustrations.  Most of the time I can brush it off and not even think twice about it, but it gets to me sometimes.  Take for example a guy i spoke with on yahoo messenger yesterday.

I have never spoken with this man before.  And he pops up after some very brief pleasantries, asking if I’m horny.  Well, for any who know me, the answer is generally yes.  BUT 90% of the time, when I’m on the computer, I’m working on something.  After my vague answer, he moves to ask if he has to go to one “my sites” to see me on cam.  When I say that I dont cam on yahoo, he asks, “Y not…does that mean u charge to see you on cam?”  Well, yes it does mean that.  He goes on to say that he doesnt want to see any nudity, just wants to see what I look like.  I point him to my yahoo avatar.  :)   He tells me its too small he cant really see what I look like.  He then says, that he bets I charge people to see my photos too.  And I say well, yes in fact I do charge to see some of my photos, but that I have lots of photos for free on different sites.  He asks, if I have any free nudes.  Of course I do and I direct him to Rude.com, where I have one of the biggest selections.  He asks If i can photo share…and I tell him honestly, that I cant, I’m using a mac and photoshare isnt even an option.  He then tells me that thats why he was asking if I do shows on yahoo, cuz his internet doesnt work properly.  He cant visit sites and stuff.

At this point, I fail to see what he wants me to do about it, so I say awwww too bad.  :)   He then says Wow ur a bitch.  And truly I’m not debating that so I say Yeah pretty much.  I then say, I love how guys think it’s my job to send them pixx and stuff.  He says and I quote “no, no, it just seems like you dont care unless people are giving you money, then u be like talkin and like bein all nice and everything.” End quote.

Now I did respond to him, but I am going to elaborate here.  I am probably one of the sweetest girls in this biz.  I will talk to pretty much anyone.  Answer most emails as long as they contain something intelligent.  Most girls dont answer email, dont give out their yahoo im name.  I freely give mine out.  Everywhere.  That is not something I NEED to do.  I have sent people free pix, I have given out free memberships to my site.  BUT those people who recieve such boons, I count as my FRIENDS.  Those people who speak to me as if I’m a real live person, and not some whore convenient only if she’ll do some fuckfaces bidding.  I do not do shows on yahoo.  Period. End of story.  If ever, I DO decide to do shows on yahoo, they will be PAY2PLAY shows, not freebies, cuz some fuck is whining to me about how horny he is.  That, my darlings, is NOT my problem.  I WILL NOT turn on my cam, even if you just want to make sure I’m “real”.  I don’t give a fuck if you believe I am who I say I am.  If all you want from me is some free pics, you can go beg some other girl, cuz you wont get shit from me.

I have TONS of free content around, if you’d like some references, I’ll be happy to provide them.   Am I bitch?? Yes, darlings, I am.  And I’m not afraid to say so.   However, I’m a bitch ONLY if you make me one.  Talk nice to me, and I’m the sweetest girl you’ll EVER meet.   I do what I do, because I love doing, the exhibitionist streak in me loves to come out and play.   I DO NOT tolerate rudeness.  Not from the guy who PAYS me for a cam show…and certainly not from some random guy begging me for free shit on yahoo.  Read my words carefully, darlings.

Now on to the good stuff…Enjoy!!

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8 Responses leave one →
  1. 2009 May 1

    being a cam girl in this industry as you are you are always going to get people like and personally i see exactly where your coming from. i appreciate being your friend and you know i never take you for granted anything you grant me anything. but you do have those dumb idiots that think they own these women and think they deserve everything from them for free just because they are “better than everyone else” but the truth of the matter is they are no higher or lower than any other human on earth they dont deserve any more than the next joe. i think you should be aggrevated and i think you need to fight in this industry like you do, be a bitch and be aggressive where times call for. you are a great woman and very beautiful to boot. keep up the good work and i cant wait to see what is coming up for you.

    • 2009 May 6
      charlieangel permalink

      You are absolutely right Robert, being in this industry I open myself up to things like this. And I very much understand that. I have no issue with a guy asking me for pixx or to cam or whatever. The problem for me comes when I say no, and they keep after it. Asking constantly and not letting it go. I had a guy recently also trying to convince me that as long as he turned on his cam for me, then I should turn mine on for him. I should only charge those guys who don’t turn on their cam, hehe. Which I guess is sound in theory if I was only interested in giving free shows. But, anyway, I appreciate your support, Robert. You have been my friend since the beginning, and that means alot to me. Some of these other guys on yahoo should take a page from your book and learn some manners!! :)

  2. 2009 May 1
    greatshaitan permalink

    There’s a thread about this very topic on fat-forums…it makes me madder than hell when guys mistreat you gorgeous ladies over the internet.

    Give me his screen-name…he’ll regret talking to you like that, I assure you.

    ;)

    • 2009 May 2
      charlieangel permalink

      hehe you wanna rough him up for me???

      • 2009 May 2
        greatshaitan permalink

        Sure! …but seriously, I can do things to make him regret ever being born without touching a hair on his body…

        ;)

  3. 2009 May 2
    Frank The Tank permalink

    I can testify that Candace is one of the sweetest people in any industry. She has always been a sweetheart from her days on Myspace and she is not all about the gold digging like some people in the business. Be nice to her and she is more than an Angel to you. ;) You go girl!!!

    • 2009 May 2
      charlieangel permalink

      Aww thank you, Frank. You are a sweetheart. XOXOXO

  4. 2009 May 6
    charlieangel permalink

    hehe :D

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